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Want Fireworks in Bed?

Play with These Hidden Erogenous Zones...

In honor of Independence Day, let’s celebrate the freedom to love and enjoy our physical selves! Spice up your sex life with these hidden, unexpected erogenous zones that will keep your lover seeing fireworks all year round!

Ears:

Surprisingly, your ears which are filled with bundles of nerve endings are ultra-sensitive to touch. As your lover becomes aroused, their earlobes engorge with blood and licking, nibbling, kissing or caressing behind the lobe will enhance their sexual experience, while breathing gently will also increase their arousal and become a major turn-on. Talking dirty in their ear or softly moaning is also going to get that party started!

Nose:

Interestingly enough, your nose is full of nerve endings and your nasal passages contain erectile tissue that becomes increasingly sensitive to the touch when stimulated. Try nibbling on your lover’s nose or rubbing noses while touching and caressing one another’s body for heightened feelings of pleasure and excitement.

Feet and Ankles:


By utilizing Chinese acupressure, the “bigger stream” which is the sunken area located between the Achilles tendon and ankle releases pleasurable feelings throughout the body when stimulated. By firmly rubbing two fingers on the area for 30 seconds, you will increase blood flow and sexual energy throughout your lover’s body.

The feet and sexual organs overlap on the same neural pathways, thus making the soles of your feet a spot for major fireworks. Even if your lover doesn’t enjoy having their feet rubbed, entice them with this acupressure trick: “The Bubbling Spring” which is a spot on the sole of the foot located about one-third of the way down from the third toe. Pressing and holding for a few seconds on this sensitive spot can release positive sexual energy and increase arousal.

Scalp:


Take a bath together, wash one another’s hair and massage the scalp which in turn releases endorphins (the feel good hormones). This will definitely excite your partner, as well as relieve stress and increase feelings of well being. If a bath isn’t in the cards, a simple scalp massage or running your fingers through their hair, lightly tugging from time to time, will get those juices flowing. Brushing their hair is also quite seductive, romantic and titillating, as well.

Inner Thighs:

Since this spot is so close to other fun areas, the inner thighs often get overlooked--which is sad! Soft and sensitive to touch, this area is a great way to tease your lover into wanting more by being so close, yet so far, to much more obvious pleasure points. So, spend some time here, gently lick, pinch and nibble and see what happens next!

Lower Back:


One major hotspot that is consistently overlooked when lovemaking is the area just below the coccyx (which is the vertebrae in the small of the back, right above the buttocks.) The sacral nerves located here heighten sensations around the pelvic and groin area when slowly and firmly massaged. This area is especially sensitive for women, so the next time she is lying on her stomach, wiggle your fingers in that spot and watch her writhe with pleasure!

Perineum:

Located between the vagina and anus or scrotum and anus, this collection of nerve endings usually gets overlooked in the game of lust.  This area is supersensitive to touch and can spark a fire! Gently touch this sexy spot and then increase pressure as arousal increases. Utilizing lubricant will only enhance the experience!

Mind:

One of America’s most famous sex symbols, Racquel Welsh, was once quoted saying, “The mind is an erogenous zone.”

Seduction does start in the mind, and scintillating conversation mixed with a raucous sense of humor and ability to think quick on your feet are all ways to turn your partner on. Talk dirty, share fantasies, make naughty plans for that evening...all of the anticipation will definitely lead to fireworks in the bedroom!

Bonus Tip:

By varying the pressure, time and location of each erogenous zone, you will only add to the pleasure and enjoyment. Lightly tickle and then firmly stroke. Enjoy a gentle massage with the hands that leads to licking and nibbling. By keeping your partner guessing as to what area you are going to excite next, you will definitely create some bedroom fireworks!

 
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  • .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)

    Sun, 04.07.10 at 01:30PM

    “Since this spot is so close to other fun areas..”

    Understatement of the year. grin

  • .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)

    Sun, 04.07.10 at 02:56PM

    Haha, yes indeed! wink

  • .(JavaScript must be enabled to view this email address)

    Sun, 04.07.10 at 09:26PM

    I’m beginning to suspect you have no non-erogenous zones, and that some zones are just more equal than others. grin

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