Two Day Magazine

Stop cheating before it starts...)

It seems like every time you turn on the television, some guy is (literally) being caught with his pants down. Now, of course, not all men cheat in their relationships, and obviously, plenty of women have their fair share of affairs, as well.

But, is there anything you can do to “cheat-proof” your relationship? Of course there is! There are plenty of ways to strengthen and enhance your own loving relationship so that you and your partner feel fulfilled and contented with one another. Things aren’t always going to be smooth, life never is, but there are steps you can take to increase the trust and respect within your relationship.

It’s All About the Intimacy...

(And, I’m not just talking about sex.) Yes, sex is important component in relationships, but physical touch, whether it be kissing, cuddling, or massaging one another keep those loving bonds strong. This is basic biology, people. The more we physically interact with one another, the more aware we become to anticipating one another’s needs and to go to one another (rather than someone new) when times get rough. This can take effort, but the rewards one reaps are well worth it.

Communication is Key...

Having open and honest communication in which you can talk to your partner about your feelings is so important to maintaining a long-lasting, strong relationship. Being with someone you respect and can trust is key to lasting love. At the foundation of every great, solid relationship is trust, honesty and respect. You can’t have any of those without real communication.

Steer Clear of “Relationship Traps”...

Meeting a friend for drinks may be harmless, but if you know for a fact that you have physical attraction to this friend, think twice before meeting them alone. Everyone has their limits as to what they can “handle” and what they can’t, so if you know someone has a crush on you (and, yes, even in happy, monogamous relationships you can sometimes form crushes on colleagues and friends) avoid situations that would threaten the foundation of your own relationship. At the end of the day, what is more important to you?