Avoiding a Big Chill Under the Sheets
What is it about the winter that makes us turn into little slugs? It’s like we shut down physically, and therefore, sexually. Sometimes, you just want to pull on the sweatpants and sit down with some com- fort food and watch really bad reality television. But, fear not! Here are some sexy tips to get your engines going! No, seriously, back away from the mac ‘n cheese and follow my simple instructions to get the sex back on track!
- Work out together. The couple that sweats together, sleeps together! Kick those pheromones into high gear and make some magic! Not only will both of you look and feel better for one another, but your energy levels will increase...meaning those lovemaking sessions could go on all night long! Now, that’s a reason to jump on a treadmill!
*Sexy Fact: Male underarm sweat has been studied and shown to improve women’s moods when those ladies get a whiff. Bring on the kickboxing! (Source, UC Berkeley News, Feb. 6, 2007)
- Read erotic literature together. Hearing the sound of your lover’s voice speaking on the subject of love, lust, and everything in be- tween, can be extremely erotic. Read your favorite passage to one another while lying naked togeth- er. Trust me; you won’t get past the first page.
*Books to read: Anais Nin’s, Delta of Venus
Catherine Miller’s, The Sexual Life of Catherine Miller
The A. N. Roquelaure trilogy, starting with, The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty.
- Give one another a soothing, sensual massage. Touch is the most important connector in a physical relationship. Massage can be soothing, gentle, relaxing and romantic. Take your time, rub warm oil or lotion on to one another, and massage every part of each other’s bodies. Don’t try to rush into sex. Work each other up in a frenzy with the motion of your hands gliding along your partner’s body. You will thank me later.
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