Married and In a “Sex Drought?”
Dear Natalie,
My husband and I have been together for six years and we used to have sex ALL THE TIME. But, fast forward two kids later, and recent job loss (on his part) and let’s just say the sex has been less than lackluster. He just doesn’t seem interested in me. I was always in great shape, and after the second baby, I have really worked hard to get my pre-baby body back. I work out like a fiend, eat really well, and I may even be a little thinner than I was pre-babies. He was always super attracted to me, but he hasn’t been in the zone lately. What’s worse, now that he lost his job, he’s put on weight and seems down all the time. Not exactly attractive! He needs to get out of this funk, and how can I help him realize that life is good? He will get another job, I’m sure of it, and in the meantime, I work and make enough to get us by. Any suggestions? I need my sexy back!
--No Sex Makes Me Cranky